Today I thought about something I told a friend this weekend while in Las Vegas where we were attending a Spring Leadership Conference featuring Fortune 500 Leadership and Success Consultant, John C. Maxwell. My new best friend.
We were just two women as usual talking about Relationship problems and I realized based on past experience that I had often spent so much time trying to convince whoever I was with at the time how good I was, how perfect I was for them and their situation and how much I could and should be there for them and help them....but I learned that sometimes they can see those qualities better if I just stepped back and gave them room..no overcrowding or constant convincing...just room.
It frequently turned out that Their vision was clouded by things that happened to them in their past...things that I didn't even know about and definitely couldn't control. Hope that helps.
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